I am thankful for many things in life. I thank God that I am resourceful, strong, and intelligent. I thank God that I have always had good paying jobs, had moved up the ladder over the years, gotten increments with every move. I thank God that I don’t need to depend on anyone else to get what I like, what I want, that I can afford it.

You would think that materialistic is a dirty word, the way some people use it.

Definition of materialistic: Primarily concerned with material objects and worldly activities, as contrasted with spiritual, moral or philosophical concerns; especially, concerned primarily with gaining money and the things that money can buy.

Admittedly, I am not a very spiritual or philosophical person. My eyes glaze over when you speak of philosophical concepts. I know I am not morally superior. I donate to charity and all that but that’s basic decency. So yes, I think I can be defined as being materialistic.

I love jewellery. I love clothes. I love bags, shoes, watches etc.

So there, I AM materialistic, no big deal. But what I don’t get is, how is that any of YOUR business?

I buy my own stuff, my man buys stuff for me. ANY OF THAT CONCERNS YOU???

Just because you are devoid of a love life doesn’t give you the right to diss others’.

Just because you are an insecure desperado, doesn’t give you the right to diss independent lasses.

If you continue to have the same attitude in life and work, you will always be a loser. Get used to it pronto.

Winners strive to improve themselves, the rest throw stones. Beware, the stones might just come back in your direction one day.

Just because the centre of attention is not on you, doesn’t give you the right to throw a pissy tantrum.

GROW UP already.

And don’t get started on the show off or boasting horse shit.

Whether I wear diamonds or not, buy designer or not, is NONE OF YOUR BUSINESS.

NONE OF YOUR BUSINESS, get it, STUPID?? Yes, STUPID. That’s what you must be, to be so damned dense in the head.

And stop leaving anonymous comments in my blog. You disgust me.