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Always blame yourself

7 July 2008 No Comment

Thought of the Day: “Always blame yourself when things go wrong and examine if there is something to be learnt”

The supplier is lousy. Should you have done your research and asked around for feedback before using him? And if you had, and everyone else thinks he is good, why was he negative for you? Could it be YOU then?

It is easy to be pointing fingers, blaming the sky, the forces, bad luck, whatever when really, the person who should be in control of the situation should be ONESELF. If something not so good happens, I choose to think it happened for a reason and that I should learn from it and move on. Most importantly, to not make the same mistake again.

And that is why I am quite uncomfortable around people who love to whine or complain all the time. When negative things come out of their mouths all the time, they create negative universal energies for themselves and the people around them. 

I have found that when I pronounce good things, list out your blessings, be grateful for them, positive energy is created. Opportunities come without me having to sought them out with immense efforts.

SO.

Huat ah!!

 

*giggles* 

 

 

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