Gean -
I love how she is affectionate and will give me random frequent kisses and hugs.
I love how she will share things with her sister without being told to.
I love how she is not grouchy or cranky, and is still the sweet little girl that she is - even when she is not well.
I love how she snuggles up to me like a baby koala just because she likes the feel and smell of her mummy.
I love how she exclaims, “Mummy you are so pretty!” LOL
Ger -
I love how she squeezes out toothpaste for me every morning before she goes to school.
I love how she tries to be good “even though it is so hard”.
I love how she is independent, streetsmart and spunky.
I love how she is good at ferreting out bullshit in people.
I love how she loves animals and have a kind loving nature.
My girls -
I love how they are good well mannered children, even though I may not be a full time stay home mum and spend 24/7 of my time with them.
I love how they are healthy and seldom fall ill. I’d like to think that it is because I have breastfed them, but really, it is mostly that we are so blessed.
I love how they are happy and well adjusted - through our divorce, accepting Big as another father figure, leaving our old home etc.
Big -
I love how he brings me to different food places to try (and disagrees vehemently that I am fat)
I love how he tries to surprise me with little things like

this Casio watch cum calculator which I had commented that would be useful on my buying trips (calculate currency).
Never mind that he had already installed the same function on my iphone. Another reason was because it goes so well with my rugged wear of snug tee, denim shorts and backpack ensemble when I go to places like BKK and HCM. In any case, I didn’t buy it because I know I will only wear it on some trips, and certainly not to work as it doesn’t channel my style at all. Of course he goes and buy it secretly to spring a surprise on me.


Just because I like teapots. I love bird and leaf motifs!! And this black/ white combo is so pretty and dainty.
I love how he gives me shoulder and foot rubs before bed.
I love how we can connect on an emotional and intellectual level.
I love how he is a good daddy to the children. Just two nights ago, he woke up in the middle of the night to check on Gean (she was running a fever) and to give her Paracetamol. And he coaches Ger in Maths, which I.absolutely.cannot.
I love how he wakes up earlier than me to make scrambled eggs and wheat and raisin toast for me.
I love how he does the laundry so that I have time to spread my fats on the couch.
I love how he surprised me with this DVD usb player so that I can watch all the shows he downloaded for me in the comfort of said couch. It’s very cool - just plug the usb in it and it plays like a dream.

Techtalk and obviously all foreign language to me. Comes with Karaoke function too!
I love how we complement each other.